Monday, June 27, 2011

Our Life in D.C.: Part 1

Last week's post about Eric's recent visit to Washington, D.C. left me feeling very nostalgic for our time there. We lived there for three years, from August 2005 through August 2008. When I first started this blog in April 2008, we were just finishing up our time in D.C. and were preparing for our new life in New York. In fact, that change in scenery was the very reason for starting this blog in the first place. However, that means that much of our time in D.C. has not been documented. As Eric's return to our former home got me reminiscing about our time there, I felt compelled to do a little more thorough looking back here. I hope you will indulge me as I post a blog series about our life in D.C.! I will take it one year at a time...

Eric and I moved to D.C. in August of 2005, along with our friend Jeff. The three of us found a two-bedroom apartment in Crystal City (Arlington), Virginia, located just a short walk from the Crystal City Metro station. The location was fabulous - not only were we near the Metro, but also the Pentagon City Mall, a Harris Teeter grocery store, tons of restaurants and even a Target just a short drive away. We could see the Pentagon from our rooftop and the Washington Monument from our apartment balcony.

Our building! We lived on the far right side, on the 13th floor (good thing we weren't superstitious!)

Jeff and me in front of our building

The view from our building's rooftop - that flat building in the distance is the Pentagon.

View of the Washington Monument from our apartment balcony

When we actually made the move, we loaded all of our combined belongings onto a truck to be driven by a moving company up to D.C. In the meantime, Jeff, Achilles and I set off for D.C. ourselves in Jeff's car, and we were the first to arrive. We unloaded everything and got unpacked, and Eric joined us a few days later when his dad and stepmom drove him up. Soon we were all getting settled into our new home.

Our living room. That teeny tiny futon under the window was eventually replaced by the second-hand sofa bed we're still using today.

More living room, including the sliding door to our balcony (I often studied out there in the summer)

Dining room

Kitchen

Our bedroom

The "office" side of our bedroom, including my trusty ol' white TV from college! Oh, and Achilles looking quite young.

There was a little bit of a learning curve when we moved to D.C. I learned to do lots more walking to get where I was going, and I was a bit anxious about taking the Metro by myself at first. But, I adjusted quickly and learned to love the convenience of public transportation.

I quickly learned this map, and learned it well.

It was also the first time we were so far away from our families. Of course, we went off to college, but that was only two hours or so from home. This was a much greater distance and I missed my family and friends. We did find the local Gator alumni group and Gator bar quickly, so that at least helped us have a little taste of Florida in our D.C. lives!

Of course, it probably comes as no surprise to you that Eric and I quickly started sightseeing. We had already seen much of the touristy stuff when Eric worked in D.C. one summer during undergrad (and I came to visit), but I was excited to take it all in again. I was just beside myself with excitement about being in such an awesome city. I felt so, so lucky.

Happy to be in D.C.!

At the World War II Memorial

Hanging out with Achilles on our balcony (it's washed out, but you would otherwise be able to see the Washington Monument behind me)

We all started school orientations pretty soon after moving up there - Eric and Jeff were starting law school, and I was starting my forensic psychology Masters program. Before long, classes were under way and we were soon in the swing of things. I made some friends at school, and was excited about my classes. I studied hard and ended up with all As that year (and in grad school altogether, actually). What can I say? I'm one of those nerds who just loves to be in school.

This picture is actually from 2008 (NOT our first year in D.C.), but this is me with my school friends Hillary and Anthony at Cafe Asia, the sushi place right below our school where we often had lunch on class days.

My very first class was a general "Psychology in the Legal System" course, which first really opened my eyes to jury consulting. I had learned about jury consulting in undergrad, but at the time I actually felt it was a rather unethical practice and couldn't believe people did such a thing for a living. In grad school however, I saw it in a new light. I no longer saw it as a unfair way to "stack" a jury, but rather, a great way to apply psychology to the legal system to make sure a defendant gets the fair trial they are entitled to. It was an interesting mental switch that obviously would come into play later in my D.C. years. At the time, I filed that idea away as a potential career path.

My classes mostly took place on the weekends and in the evenings, so I found a job as a receptionist for a property management company in D.C. (just off the Farragut West Metro stop) to fill my time during the week (and, you know, pay the bills). The job paid well, and was a nice change of pace from the hectic world of waiting tables in a sports bar (my previous job in Florida). In fact, my job really just consisted of sitting at a desk and answering the phone when it rang, which was not all too often. In between calls, I was free to do my homework (and later, after Eric proposed, plan my wedding!), which was perfect. On top of all that, I worked with some very nice people. It was a perfect situation.

This photo is actually from Christmas 2006, but this is me with some of my former co-workers: Lance, Lesley, Lexy, Lisa and Peter.

In our personal lives, that year started a great tradition: that of dressing the dog in ridiculous costumes at Halloween and forcing him to sit next to our carved pumpkins. Oh, good times.

Construction man Achilles with our Batman pumpkin

That year, our Halloween pumpkin met an unfortunate demise after its day had passed: a "fall" off our balcony. Oh, boys.

Jeff clearly has some long-standing animosity towards our pumpkin.

That year also marked the first year we didn't return home for Thanksgiving. I actually spent the holiday in Cleveland for my cousin Erin's wedding, but Jeff and Eric stayed in D.C. Eric's mom ordered them a pre-cooked Thanksgiving dinner from one of our local grocery stores, so they feasted on that. Left to their own devices, the turkey carcass met the same fate as the Halloween pumpkin. The unforeseen negative consequence of that was that the bones fell to the grassy area behind the building, where we took Achilles to do his business. I spent months after that having to carefully watch Achilles back there, lest he find himself a turkey bone in the grass and start chomping away.

Jeff and Eric carving their turkey

Fly, turkey, fly!

Our first winter in D.C. required some adjustments. I grew up in Cleveland, so I had experienced snowy winters before, but I was living with two Florida boys so there was definitely some novelty there. Of course, D.C. really didn't get that snowy, but it was still a fun change of pace.

Washington Monument in the winter

Poor, cold FDR sporting a snow hat

January of 2006 is particularly memorable for me, as that is when Eric proposed. On January 19th, when I got home from work, we grabbed some dinner then went out to the National Mall to look at the monuments at night. We ended up sitting on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, which is my favorite. It was there that Eric got down on one knee and asked me to be his bride. I cried, tourists stared, and I resisted putting my gloves back on for as long as I physically could afterwards so I could stare at my new ring. It was romantic and perfect.

Beautiful setting for an engagement, if I do say so myself!

This was not taken on our engagement night, but shortly after. We're standing on the step where Eric proposed.

Self taken photo to show off my new jewelry

Winter finally gave way to spring, which brought our first experience with the incredible cherry blossoms. Those blossoms are a sight like no other.

Cherry blossoms in full bloom

View of the Jefferson Memorial from across the Tidal Basin, through the blossoms

Of course, as we tend to do, we kept ourselves busy and tried to take advantage of our surroundings.

We saw Rent at the Warner Theater

We went to several Cavs v. Wizards playoff games at the Verizon Center

We took the MARC train to Baltimore and caught a game at Camden Yards

Eric surprised me with a trip to the circus, because he knew I had never been!

Patriotic holidays were fantastic in D.C., of course. On our first Memorial Day, we watched the parade and went to the Memorial Day Concert on the Capitol Lawn.

On Constitution Avenue for the Parade

View of the Washington Monument from the Capitol Lawn during the Memorial Day Concert

That summer Eric got a job working for a judge in Ft. Lauderdale, so when summer hit he headed south while I stayed up in D.C. I missed him terribly, but he came back for a surprise visit over Fourth of July weekend. We spent the weekend enjoying the festivities and eating cookout food, but unfortunately, he had to fly back to Florida before the fireworks. I did not want to go out to the Mall to see them by myself, so I watched the reflection of them in a Crystal City building from our balcony.

National Archives looking festive for the Fourth

Random Uncle Sam on the Mall

Back at our proposal spot once again, looking out over the Reflecting Pool at the WWII Memorial and Washington Monument

That July I celebrated my 24th birthday. As a special birthday treat, my sister came to visit me for the first time over my birthday weekend. We had a great time sightseeing, drinking wine, and hitting the town for some nightlife action. It was a great visit!

Ringing in my birthday with some margaritas

By the Potomac at the end of King Street in Old Town Alexandria, one of my favorite places to spend an afternoon

Before I knew it, the summer was drawing to a close. Eric returned to D.C., and we were ready to begin Year Two!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

A Splash of Color

The Empire State Building sure is looking fabulous in rainbow colors this weekend, in honor of Pride Week and last night's historic vote to legalize same sex marriage in New York State:

Friday, June 24, 2011

Eric's Return to D.C.: U.S. Open Weekend

As I mentioned in my last post, Eric was in Washington, D.C. last weekend for the (golf) U.S. Open. I was very, very jealous of Eric's D.C. trip - not because of the U.S. Open part, but just because, well, I miss D.C. With the exception of one brief business trip for me just about a week after we moved here, neither of us had been back to D.C. since we left nearly three years ago. My sadness over leaving was well-documented, and I still miss it very much. I loved that city and could definitely see myself living there again someday. So, the fact that Eric got to go back for a fun weekend made me pretty envious, but considering the impetus for this trip was golf-related, I figured it was best to stay behind and let him enjoy a boys' weekend with Jeff. (Just a little Jeff background: Eric and Jeff went to high school together, and then we all became friends during college. After college, the three of us moved up to D.C., where Eric and Jeff started law school and I went for my Masters degree. We all lived together for two years, until Eric and I got married. Jeff is still a great friend and has visited us several times in NYC.)

Eric took the BoltBus down to D.C. from Penn Station, which in itself caused me to reminisce like crazy. I never took the BoltBus specifically, but in the summer of 2007, when I was still in D.C. and Eric was a summer associate here in New York City, I took the oh-so-luxurious Chinatown bus to and from NYC often to visit him. Ah, memories!

Eric said the BoltBus was great, and it only took about four and a half hours to get to D.C., with no stops. He arrived around sunset on Friday night, and was instantly nostalgic as he stepped off the bus near Union Station. He walked from there through the Georgetown University Law Center campus to the Chinatown metro stop, a walk he made almost daily during our three years in D.C. Oh, the familiar sights! Looking at the photos he took made me miss it so much.

Sunset sky over the Georgetown Law campus

Eric used to see this view of the Capitol dome every day as he crossed the street on his way to and from school

Georgetown Law Center clock tower

GULC campus

Eric met Jeff in Chinatown, and they walked over to Hill Street BBQ for dinner, but they had a 45-minute wait so they killed some time by walking up to the Archives/Navy Memorial area.

View of the Capitol

National Archives

Navy Memorial

I love this - when FDR was president, he said that if they ever built a memorial to him, he wanted just a simple block about the size of his desk, placed on the lawn in front of the Archives. So, this original FDR Memorial was built. 30-some years later, they built the sprawling new memorial to him along the Tidal Basin. That memorial is beautiful and one of my most favorites, but it is definitely not what he requested!

After their wait, the boys finally got their dinner of ribs, brisket, cornbread, mac and cheese, green bean casserole, mashed sweet potatoes and sweet tea. These boys love them some BBQ. They often went to good ol' Sonny's back in Florida, followed by Red, Hot and Blue in D.C., and Daisy May's when Jeff comes to visit us here. It's good stuff.

After dinner they went by Jeff's office for a bit. (Jeff is a patent lawyer.)

Jeff in his office

The boys then went back to Jeff's apartment, watched Jackass 3.5, then went to bed in preparation for the long day ahead.

Saturday was U.S. Open day, and the boys got going around 8:30 a.m., which was a much later start than they got went they went to the U.S. Open in NYC in 2009. They stopped for breakfast, then took the Metro (oh, Metro! How I miss you!) to Grosvenor, followed by a shuttlebus to Congressional Country Club in Bethesda, MD.

Eric and Jeff with their U.S. Open tickets

They watched the early groups play the first four holes, then spent some time on the range watching Lee Westwood, Ryo Ishikawa and Jeff Overton (among others) warm up. They then followed two reigning major champions, Graeme McDowell (2010 U.S. Open) and Martin Kaymer (2010 PGA), for the first five holes before stopping for lunch. They then watched 18 and 10 from the hill behind the 18th hole.

Next they walked the back nine to do the interactive events that were set up, including taking pictures with the U.S. Open trophy, having a video made of each of them sinking the winning putt, and flipbooks made of their swings. How cool is all that? Natalie Gulbis was also signing autographs, and there was an area set up to offer 10-minute lessons and high-speed videos of your swing.

Eric with the U.S. Open trophy...foreshadowing?

VIDEO: Jeff's flipbook of his swing from the U.S. Open

After all that fun, Eric and Jeff walked to the back nine to see the groups hit that they hadn't already seen. In doing so, they barely missed getting hit by an errant tee shot on 11! Heads up! Fore! All that good stuff! They found a spot and camped out by the seventh tee with a great view of the sixth green. They watched the leaders play through teeing off on 9 before heading back to D.C.

Back at Jeff's apartment, they ordered pizza and went for a swim in the pool at Jeff's building. Then, at Eric's request, they went out to walk around the National Mall. One of our favorite things to do when we lived in D.C. was to walk the Mall at night and see all the monuments lit up. In fact, Eric proposed to me at the Lincoln Memorial at night. It's just so beautiful at night, and if you are going to visit D.C. anytime soon, I highly recommend saving your monument-ing for nighttime.

I hear some important guy lives here?

Daughters of the American Revolution Constitution Hall, where my graduation was held

Washington Monument

Looking up at the Washington Monument

World War II Memorial

World War II Memorial, totally being photobombed by the Washington Monument
(Kidding..it's a beautiful picture, Eric!)

My favorite, the Lincoln Memorial

Eric down on his knee on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, in the exact spot where he proposed to me five years ago

Abe looking as stately as ever

Please pardon all the touristy photos, but I just love those monuments and I miss them in my life.

The boys didn't make it all the way around the Tidal Basin to the FDR and Jefferson Memorials, but they had already walked miles and miles all day so they did quite enough. They went back to Jeff's apartment, watched Jackass 3D, then called it a night. The next morning, they slept in then went to the gym to play racquetball. Then they had lunch and played some foosball until it was time for Eric to catch his bus back to NYC.

I know Eric had a great time back in D.C., and I am anxiously awaiting an opportunity to get back there myself. It's such a fabulous city.

Thanks to Eric for all his help with the details of this post, and thanks to Jeff for hosting my husband last weekend!