Thursday, February 5, 2015

Disney Pt. 5: 26.2 Magical Miles

At long last! The post we have all been waiting for: the Marathon recap! Naturally, I asked Eric to write up the actual marathon from his point of view, because obviously he knows how it all went down far better than I do. Without further ado, I give you Eric's marathon experience (with my own take to follow after):

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I am now a marathoner. However, as long as it sounds, the last 26.2 miles were just barely the icing on a life-long running cake, so to speak. Prior to college, I had been running my whole life, peaking in high school where I ran sub-5 minute miles and helped set a school record in the 4x800 meter relay. During college, I played a lot of intramural sports but all but stopped running during law school. When I tried to pick it back up in New York to train for the NYC Half Marathon in 2009, my training pace was almost double what it would have been seven years earlier. My reduced speed has taken a lot of getting used to, and although I have seen decent improvement this year over shorter distances, it is probably a big reason I haven't kept up as much as I should have given how much I actually enjoy running.

In any event, I enjoyed the first half marathon and ran two more while we were in New York. I actually like that distance a lot and would probably prefer to run a few each year to stay in shape while focusing on racing even shorter distances. However, I always felt like I had to complete a marathon. It seemed like plenty of other people were doing it and I knew I could accomplish it as well, so I had to actually do it. Since I added it to my formal bucket list, Meghan understood how serious I was, but she has not-so-secretly hoped that it would be a one-time thing. She is probably concerned most with injury, but it also requires a much greater time commitment to train properly. We'll see what happens, but I have no immediate plans to run another.

Before I talk about the race itself, I want to also mention that, in addition to all of this backstory, the 26.2 also fails to reflect the 450 miles I ran in 2014, the 18 audio books I "read" during those miles, the two pairs of shoes it took and the pre-6:00 wakeups every third Sunday. I also want to make it clear that none of this would have been possible without the love, patience, belief and support of my lovely wife. Seriously.

Pre-Race
My alarm was set for 2:50 a.m. (yes, with a 2!) and I actually slept better than I expected to, especially after some pre-race meal difficulties, including forgotten seasoning and a ruined sauce pan. When I first arrived at Epcot, I was very excited to see the ball, knowing that the next time I saw it would be around mile 26. I took a quick picture and headed into the staging area. There was an entertaining DJ who played a lot of great dance music. I spent about an hour shivering on some bleachers and watching people of all ages do the Cuban Shuffle and the Wobble. I waited until 5:00 or so, took a "before" picture and headed to the starting line.

The parking lot was a bit less crowded than usual at 4:00 a.m.

Official start photo

The walk to the corrals was almost a full mile from the staging area. On top of that, I ended up making a wrong turn and had to backtrack a good bit to get into my actual corral, which I did just in time to watch the last bit of the pre-race program.

Apparently I wasn't the only one who waited until the last minute to head over

At the start, runners were divided into 16 different groups, based on previous race times. The official start time was 5:30 a.m., and each subsequent group was sent off approximately three minutes after the previous one. Each group had its own countdown and fireworks, which was very cool. It was right around 6:00 when my group was sent off.

Let's do this!

The Course
The marathon starts outside of Epcot and the first five miles head straight for the Magic Kingdom. It was still really dark and the anticipation (and perhaps the fact that these were the first five miles) made this stretch feel really easy. There were a few impressive character set-ups (a pirate ship with Jack Sparrow and a graveyard scene with the guy from The Nightmare Before Christmas) and some high school bands, and the crowds outside the ticket and transportation center were notably great. It was around this time that I received my first text message from Meghan (just before the five-mile marker to be exact). I should clarify that this does not include the messages waiting for me on the insides of my wristbands and on my snack bags, or the "You're Awesome" reminder she set on my phone for 3:10 a.m. I loved messaging her during the long training runs and loved it even more during the race.

All the booths were manned with people warning runners about a tiny speed bump.

This picture is actually from Tommorwland, where it was still very much nighttime.

I loved that every mile was different and that there was matching music. I even smiled at the horse being included on 2 and the little guy on 3.

Shortly after receiving Meghan's text, we entered the Magic Kingdom and began with a memorable run down a packed Main Street. The course then wound through Tomorrowland and back towards Cinderella Castle before we headed west to exit in Frontierland. It was here that I took my first picture with a character, even though I had already taken pictures of several others. Running under the castle and through the park gave me the biggest smile I would have for another 21 miles.

My pictures from earlier on Main Street were very blurry due to a mixture darkness and adrenaline.


Running by the castle


After exiting the Magic Kingdom, there is a two-mile stretch running by some really nice resorts, including the Polynesian and the Grand Floridian, some famous characters and one of the golf courses, before entering the Walt Disney World Speedway. I was actually excited about the speedway and stopped to take a panoramic picture, which I didn't think was working so I stopped. There were rows of cars lined along the track and random car noises being played when you first start running. My enthusiasm dwindled somewhat by the time I left, given how long it took to actually complete the lap.

It's probably against the rules to run a Disney race and not take pictures with some of the characters. I just wish some of the lines were not too long to get even more.

1/4 of what would have been a pretty sweet panorama

Can you guess which mile marker was inside the race track?

From there, it was a very long three-mile run to Animal Kingdom and the halfway point. Most notably, this stretch passes the Disney World waste treatment facility, which features sign after sign touting the important work being done. Regardless, it smelled exactly like what it is. Shortly after, we passed the groundskeeping facility, which featured a cool topiary in front.

Unfortunately, there are no pictures of the treatment plant or the signs. Fortunately, there are no pictures of the smells.

The road into Animal Kingdom included live petting zoo animals with species-appropriate signs. I don't remember any of them and I probably should have taken some pictures. My two takeaways were that the Mount Everest ride looked very cool and that Dinoland USA seems like something Ellie will love when we actually make it there. The park wasn't open when I ran through it, but there was an enthusiastic queue of people lining the parking lot on my way out. Shortly after exiting, I passed the 13.1 marker (which happened less than 10 minutes before I received another pre-set message from Meghan congratulating me on making it halfway).

She's a psychic.

Everest.

iPhone didn't exactly nail the lighting, but you get the idea.

This began what, to me, felt like the longest and slowest stretch. Other than a group of entertaining undertakers dragging shovels across the pavement and posing for menacing pictures, it was really just highway for three plus miles, and not close enough to the start or finish to be excited about anything in particular. It didn't help that this was also when I started noticing a little bit of left knee pain, including what felt like a minor crack that I hadn't experienced before. I decided not to really push it this far from the finish and began walking more frequently and for longer stretches. This portion of the race also messed with my head because around mile 16 you can see runners on the other side of the road heading the other way towards mile 21. There was also a DJ talking about these runners looking so strong at 20.4 miles, which made me quite angry/jealous.

I liked the sign choices, at least.

Just out of earshot from the DJ, we entered the ESPN Wide World of Sports, which included a cool, wet towel that felt amazing. I actually enjoyed winding all over the complex. I received some pictures from Meghan but wouldn't let myself look until I hit mile 20. The highlight here was definitely Champion Stadium (the spring training home of the Atlanta Braves), which had a very vocal crowd and a couple of bands.

I'm making a deja vu face, but I would have liked to caption this along the lines of following in Ellie's footsteps.

The crowd looks much smaller than it felt.

Checking off another 4 miles

It was much nicer seeing the DJ this time and the road to mile 21 was really easy. I stopped to take a picture with the Green Army Man who was shouting encouragement at passing runners and then realized why they put him where they did. The worst climb of the entire marathon was directly behind him. It wasn't as bad as the bridges in Jacksonville, but after entering uncharted territory (my longest run had been 21 miles), it wasn't great. If that wasn't fun enough on its own, it actually started raining. I stopped at the first aid tent at the top of the hill and put some BioFreeze on my left calf and knee.

I'm actually smiling at some jokes Meghan told when I mentioned entering into uncharted territory.

The hill and the army man are actually after the right hand turn hidden by Aurora.

From the top it was onwards to Hollywood Studios and then Epcot and then the finish! I knew all along that once I got to Hollywood Studios, I would be golden. I also knew there was candy at mile 22 just inside the park, which ended up being a single fun size Hershey bar. Not sure what I expected or if I was really thinking straight by then, but I was fairly disappointed. On the way in, I really liked running through some tunnel which passed glass-windowed rooms where all of the costumes are made and maintained.

The bottom of the now-defunct sorcerer's hat is behind me.

Two more down!

From Hollywood Studios we ran towards the Boardwalk resort area, which I really liked. It took longer than I expected to get to Epcot, but once I was in, I felt so thrilled. I kept looking over my shoulder to find the ball and when I finally saw it, I felt a wave of emotion. I stopped to take a picture with Jasmine from Aladdin, made my way around the world showcase, took a picture with the ball and then finally ran past the gospel choir at the mile 26 marker and then headed out of the park.

I'm much happier than I look here.

I was very relieved running around Epcot knowing I was going to do it.  

Last mile!

As I was getting close to the exit, the rain picked back up again. Thanks to technology, I had no problem spotting Meghan and Co. and stopped to say a quick hello and take their picture. They were huddled together and the kids were over it by the time I got there in the rain, but it was still so great to know they were there for so long and then to see them and then to get real hugs at the finish.

Cheering squad

Speaking of finish, that's what I did next and it felt great. I gave an enthusiastic double fist pump (I had meant to plan something but never got around to it) and was pleased I could follow the line to medals and family meet-up and not to first aid or massage. My legs actually felt okay. I had another surge of emotion and may have cried if Meghan had gotten to me sooner. Guess I'll have to wait till next time. Just kidding. Probably.

Whew.

Yessir.

Finisher!


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GO, ERIC!

I'm so proud of him. He really worked so hard and I'm so glad he was able to keep on going to reach this goal. It was not easy to carve out the time to train for this marathon this past year, considering right smack in the middle of it all we had a new baby, then that baby spent two weeks in the hospital, then we moved. Plus, you know, other life. I'm so proud of Eric for sticking with it and emerging victorious.

I also wanted to share the marathon experience from the point of view of the spectators, if you care to stick around for a little more marathon talk.

The night before the race, I tried to make sure Eric was all set to go. We prayed together before bed, then he went to sleep while I made sure his "costume" (Mickey-inspired running outfit) was ready to go. I also was in charge of making sure his phone was fully charged before bringing it in to him (as a backup alarm clock - no Seinfeld-esque marathon oversleeping was going to happen on my watch!), and before doing so I programmed a few encouraging message reminders to pop up at various points along the way. I also put some notes on the inside of his wristbands and on his little nutrition chews. By golly, I was not going to let him quit because he felt down, that's for sure!

Notes for Eric to find in the morning

I got up a little early (after, of course, waking up around when Eric was supposed to leave and wondering if he was on time and how he was feeling). I pulled up the live stream of the marathon on Eric's computer and went back to watch his corral start the race, though I didn't see him. My mom got up shortly thereafter and soon we roused the kids so we could get ready and go. We had tried to figure out approximately when Eric would be reaching the finish, and wanted to leave a couple hours before that to allow time for traffic (which we expected to be bad) and finding a spot. When Eric texted me that he was halfway done and we had yet to leave the house, I panicked a little!

In fact, we had plenty of time. Traffic was no trouble at all, and neither was parking or finding a spot. We snagged a spot right by the railing along a bend that would afford us a great view of Eric coming towards us with the Epcot ball behind him, so I had the camera ready. Then, it was just time to wait.

Hanging out in the crowd in our homemade t-shirts! They all say "Proud [x] of #4108!"

As we waited, both kids started to get a little over it. Ellie was spooked by all the crowds and E.J. desperately wanted to nap. We solved these problems by my mom holding Ellie for basically the whole time, and I eventually got E.J. to doze off in the carrier. Crises averted!

Entertaining herself with Grammy

I was texting with Eric here and there while he ran, and I was keeping tabs on him with the "Find My Friends" app on our phones. So, I knew when he was getting close. I was staring off at that bend, watching for him, camera at the ready.

At this point I texted to make sure he knew it was a marathon, not a triathlon. No swimming required.

Then, the rain picked up. I started fussing with my sweater, trying to pull it up over E.J.'s head to shield him, and then all of a sudden, Eric was standing in front of us! I was so mad that the rain had distracted me and after all that, I missed his approach. Luckily, he spotted us, and stopped to take a picture then continued on! He was looking strong!

Snapping our picture! What a cool guy move.

We left our spot and went to meet up with him past the finish line. Ellie was so excited by this point - she was dying to see Daddy!

Showing off our signage

At last, we found him! Ellie gave him a huge hug and the rest of us followed suit. I was so proud of him—we all were!

Hugs!

Checking out the hardware

"Thanks for running all those miles to get me this new teether, Dad!"

Celebratory dance party!

It meant so much to me to be able to be there to see Eric complete this goal. I'm so thankful my mom was able to come to town to help me with the kids so that would be possible. Thank you, Mom!

Eric and his proud mother-in-law

We then made our way back to the cars as the rain picked back up. We went back to the hotel where Eric relaxed as much as possible and I went to get us some lunch from Chili's. My mom stayed for lunch then left to go home.

That evening, we went back to Downtown Disney for the Cool Down Party. We didn't stay long, but it was nice to get out and walking around. I'm so proud of both my runners!

W. family medalists!

And that was it! The big event! Congratulations, Eric! We're so proud of you and we love you so much!

Coming up next: Our last day in Orlando, with breakfast at Chef Mickey's!

(If you'd like to see the rest of the marathon photos, you can see Eric's pictures here and my spectating pictures here.)

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Dear E.J. - Seven Months



My dear E.J.,

Today you are seven months old, and time is marching on through your first year of life at an uncomfortably rapid pace. I am starting to make plans for a birthday party for your sister next month, and while doing so I cannot help but think that the next party I plan after hers will be for your very first birthday. It hardly seems possible, yet at the same time, I already feel that every day you look less and less like a little baby and more and more like a little boy. Like it or not, you are growing up on me.

Last month I spoke about how active you were becoming, and I mentioned that if left on the floor you would scoot yourself "great distances." I should clarify that by that I meant, essentially, the distance from our foam play mat to the coffee table, which is only a couple of feet. And now? Well, let's just say you have long since shattered that record for distance traveled! Since last month, you have started "creeping" as if it is your life's one true calling. You are quick, you are purposeful, and you are all over the place. These days, you will get on a roll and creep your way clear out of the living room and to the far ends of the house (often all the way out to Achilles' water/food dish in the kitchen—yay!). You have also discovered that Ellie's room is an untapped gold mine of new and interesting toys, and if you catch sight of her open bedroom door your life is given new purpose and off you go. You are still largely using your arms to pull yourself around (sometimes with both arms simultaneously, and sometimes army-crawl style), though as of late you have begun to add more legwork into the mix. You have also started raising yourself up onto your hands and knees and rocking back and forth, sometimes also moving a knee forward here and there before sliding back down. I can't imagine that actual crawling is too far off for you!

You have also started pulling yourself up a bit, mostly into my lap. It seems that your ability to travel great distances has brought to light that the distance between you and me can increase and decrease, and you seem to have realized that you have some control over that. I have seen some hints of separation anxiety lately, including some heartbreaking cries when I put you in your Pack 'N Play in the living room (affectionately called your "baby jail," and intended to keep you safe if I have to step out of the room) and walk away. So long as you can get yourself to me, you're okay, and I have been lucky enough to see lots of excited baby movement in my direction. Sometimes you'll be playing in the living room while I work at my computer in the dining room, and when I look down, there you are rounding the corner to pull yourself up at my feet. What a sweetheart!

I fear this newfound realization that I can walk away from you is contributing to the continuation and, unfortunately, the worsening of our sleep issues. With the exception of one random night this month when you slept 12 hours straight (WHAT), you're still waking up every two hours overnight. We spent a couple of days trying to sleep-train you using a method recommended by our pediatrician, but it just wasn't right for us and we abandoned ship for a bit. I have done more reading on the subject and am planning to start working on this again in the next week or so, which I am both dreading and looking forward to, because Buddy, I love you, but this cannot last. Your sleep has never been great but since my last letter it has gotten even worse. Gone are the long initial stretches of sleep that once allowed me to relax through the evening, replaced with several wakeups for you before I even get to bed. Where once you were able to put yourself to sleep in your crib at bedtime with ease, now you will cry as if I have ripped your heart out if I lay you down drowsy but awake and leave the room (thanks, separation anxiety!). You are no longer easy to get back to sleep at night, either. It used to be that a quick 10-minute nursing and cuddle session was all it took to get you peacefully back to bed, but for the past few nights I have been required to spend much greater lengths of time in your room, holding you close until you are dead to the world before I can lay you back down without instant tears. And don't get me wrong, I love cuddling you and I love that I am able to comfort you so. But something has to give, because I am so tired. And you are tired, too. I just hope that I have the strength to do what needs to be done to ultimately help us both get the rest we need.

In the past week or so you have started showing some progress in your verbal development, becoming a good bit more vocal as you scoot around on the floor. You've started making some consonant sounds, some of which have even sounded almost "mama"-like. I keep encouraging you to say "mama," which then leads to Daddy chiming in, "Say, DADA!," to which Ellie replies, "NO! He wants to say ELLIE! Say ELLIE, E.J.!" So needless to say, you have a lot of people vying for your first word! Keep up the good work and one of us will win out soon enough!

This month we attempted the introduction of solid foods, but it has not exactly been a rousing success. We started with some pureed avocado, which you allowed us to feed to you despite your looks of disgust following each bite. We moved on then to pureed sweet potato, for which you refused to even open your mouth. I then decided to simplify and we tried rice cereal (that was really mostly breastmilk with a touch of cereal added in), but that didn't really go any better. You just refused to open your mouth for the spoon, which meant mealtime was a frustrating endeavor for all involved. That was when the idea struck me to ditch the purees and give you large, grabbable pieces of soft foods. You love to pick up anything and everything and put it directly in your mouth, so I thought that if maybe you were running the show, you would end up with more of the food actually making its way to the desired target. Of course, as these things go, it didn't quite go as planned and we spent a few days just basically mashing and smearing sweet potato chunks all over the place. (Never mind, of course, that you'll go back for second and third helpings of Daddy's running shoes if we let you, but sweet potatoes are wholly inedible.) Just in the last couple of days, however, some pieces of avocado have actually ended up in your mouth! You then give a look of confusion mixed with displeasure and spit it out, but hey, baby steps. We'll get there!

I wanted to list your favorite toys these days, but really your favorite things to play with are ANYTHING YOU CAN GET YOUR HANDS ON. Again, that mobility works to your advantage, and in all your exploring of our home, you stop to inspect anything that catches your eye. I suppose some particular favorites are Ellie's toy computer, your music box, your stacking blocks, Ellie's dog pull-toy, any and all shoes, anything resembling a power cord, the lower bars of the coffee table, and Achilles' tail. You also enjoy being tickled, playing peek-a-boo, and "flying" up over our heads. Other favorite pastimes include pulling the hair at the base of Mama's neck and trying to roll over and climb off the changing table as if you are hellbent on your own destruction.

In other fun news of the month, we went on our first vacation as a family of four: to Disney World, for Marathon Weekend. We got to see your Daddy run the Disney Marathon (go, Daddy!), and Ellie ran a 100m Kids' Race. Next year, maybe you'll be racing, too! We also spent five nights in a hotel, went to Magic Kingdom and Hollywood Studios, and had breakfast with Mickey and pals at Chef Mickey's. Naps were a struggle for you on this trip, but you really were so good the whole time. You dozed in the stroller when you really needed to, and the rest of the time you were content to be worn by me in the little Mickey carrier I fixed up for you. You looked just as cute as a button in that thing, with your little mouse ears and your trademark E.J. smile. You especially loved meeting Mickey Mouse (he autographed a baseball for you!), but you were so content to come along for the ride the whole weekend. Even on our last day, at Chef Mickey's, when I thought you were overtired and fussy, people came up to me to comment on how happy and smiley you are. You've still got it, kid. World's happiest baby!

E.J., it is a real honor and a pleasure to watch you growing up right before my eyes. These days I feel as if each morning we wake up and you can do something today that you couldn't yesterday, and I can hardly wait to see what tomorrow will bring. Yes, I am still heartbroken when I let myself recognize that each new achievement signals the end of another piece of your babyhood, but you're just so much fun to watch that it does lessen the blow quite a bit. You are one cool kid—happy, friendly, sweet, determined—and I am so excited to continue to get to know you and figure out just who you really are. I love you so much, little man, and I'm so happy that you're my boy.

Happy seven months, buddy.

All my love,
Mama


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Dear E.J.,

How is it February already? Are you actually seven months old? I'm not sure what it is, but this month has passed by way too fast. We had tons of fun together, and you did a decent bit of growing yourself, but I am definitely not ready for the time to start flying. You are simply the cutest and happiest little baby, and I forgot how awesome it is to watch someone experience so many things for the first time with such intense curiosity. You are so interested in things that you have gotten really good at propelling yourself across the house and are even starting to pull up onto things (especially Mama).

The curiosity thing actually reminds me of a thought that is far more pragmatic than the typical parenthood-as-puppies-and-rainbows transformational experience description you usually find in these kinds of letters. Essentially, I want to admit that I typically view most of these early parenthood days as being composed of shifts. These are the two- to three-hour stretches between naps that need to be filled with enough entertainment to keep you from crying. This does not mean I don't absolutely treasure a lot of this time, including the hairiest of stretches towards the end of some shifts when the number of acceptable distractions shrinks and the most popular remaining option is to walk you around. This could be due to the fact that you are E.J. and you always reserve the right to break into a big smile. You really are such a happy baby! Anyway, your supreme curiosity and ever-growing mobile independence make these shifts high on enjoyment and low on actual labor. To be fair, at seven months, the "work" is primarily placing toys where we want you to go and making sure you don't hurt yourself, an important consideration that seems to play absolutely no part in your moment-to-moment cost-benefit analyses. For the record, some of your favorite things to inspect right now include music players, small balls, shoes, Achilles, and spots of light on the floor, but you will generally consider anything else you can (or can at least attempt to) grab with your hands.

As month seven draws to a close, you are on the verge of making consonant sounds, pulling yourself up, mastering sitting without toppling, eating actual foods and sleeping through the night. I add the last one as wishful thinking for the well-being of you and your Mama. Depending on how old you are when you get around to skimming through this tome, I hope it seems silly how difficult it was for you to consistently fall and stay asleep. I know things can always be worse, but it still feels pretty ridiculous sometimes. Putting that aside, I can't believe how intensely you are staring down the barrel of a year. All of these big boy things and all of this progress means that we will soon be out of the perfect baby era and firmly in the I-hope-he's-still-all-world-cool-(and really smart and good at golf)-but-even-if-he's-not-that's-okay-too era. No matter what happens, I will always cherish the time I spent with my little buddy, and hope the older you is half as excited to spend some time with older me.

All my love,
Daddy

Monday, February 2, 2015

Disney Pt. 4: Downtown Disney/Rest Day

After our fun day at Magic Kingdom on the Friday of Marathon Weekend, we took Saturday off from any wild, ambitious activity in favor of a more low-key day before the marathon on Sunday.

We spent most of Saturday morning hanging out at the hotel. Dr. Ellie/Anna was on call for check-ups as needed.

It's time for your check-up, Stuffy!

My mom drove over to Orlando to spend Saturday and Sunday with us, and when she got in we decided to just head over to Downtown Disney for a little bit to wander around and stretch our legs outside of the hotel. We had fun posing for photos and browsing through the shops.

Greetings from Arendelle!

Photo op!

Walking with Grammy

Jedi Princess

Ellie loved this Cinderella statue!

When we got back to the hotel it was time for lunch and naps. Poor E.J. was having a terrible time napping on this trip, and I'm not sure why. We even brought the little travel swing we used in St. Pete over Christmas, and that didn't do the trick in the slightest this time. Saturday he had a particularly rough time but when we finally got him down, my mom and I ran out to WalMart for some craft supplies—we wanted to make t-shirts to wear in support of Eric at the marathon! When we returned, Eric went down to the hotel hot tub for a bit while we made our shirts.

That evening we had dinner (peas and macaroni for Eric, and beef stew from a nearby Irish Pub for my mom and me, after a slight smoke alarm mishap). We were also treated to a show on endless repeat: Ellie's obsession with the Frozen soundtrack was really gaining traction and she spent most of the evening decked out in her Anna dress, singing and acting out her favorite Anna songs. Adorable, I tell you.

VIDEO: Ellie's "For the First Time in Forever (Reprise)

VIDEO: Another version of her performance! Also featuring bonus background fussing by E.J.

We sent Eric to bed early that night (as early as possible), and after the kids were asleep my mom and I stayed up late drinking wine and chatting while I sewed Mickey buttons on Eric's red running shorts so he could be festive for the marathon. Then it was off to bed!

Coming up next: MARATHON DAY!